Ask Less

I often ask my boyfriend to go and do errands for me, whether it be because I'm lazy or can't do it myself. He asked me to ask him less, even though I told him the other night that "asking less" for me will mean that I stop asking altogether. He wants me to be more "self sufficient". Ok, guess I won't ask anymore. If someone else won't do it and I can't do it then it won't happen.